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		<title>Messenger of Truth</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[And a Happy New Year to you all. I was thinking how I could start off a new decade on my blog. I then thought that a picture is worth a thousand words, and what better way to paint a picture with words than with a poem. I wrote this poem long before my daughter [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">And a Happy New Year to you all. I was thinking how I could start off a new decade on my blog. I then thought that a picture is worth a thousand words, and what better way to paint a picture with words than with a poem. I wrote this poem long before my daughter was born, and I believe that this poem still describes my vision of parenting and what I want for all children. I hope you will take a look and listen deep inside.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">And without further ado&#8230;</p>
<p align="center">
<p align="center">Inquisitively approaching his mother the child asks,</p>
<p align="center">“Mommy, where did I come from?”</p>
<p align="center">Nervously searching for an explanation that would satisfy the child,</p>
<p align="center">She questions herself and her memories of old.</p>
<p align="center">She envisions the gangly bird carrying the child and remembers&#8230;</p>
<p align="center">How foolish she felt so few years later</p>
<p align="center">That she had believed her parents,</p>
<p align="center">And questioned why such a story had been manufactured.</p>
<p align="center">
<p align="center">What purpose did this tale serve to engender trust and understanding</p>
<p align="center">In the mind of The Child?</p>
<p align="center">For The Child would only discover,</p>
<p align="center">As she and many others had before her,</p>
<p align="center">That it was just a story created to quiet The Inquisitive Child,</p>
<p align="center">Not to answer the question.</p>
<p align="center">A tale that hides the invisible embarrassment and flush of feelings,</p>
<p align="center">Sending the message that the truth is better not discussed,</p>
<p align="center">When it is shrouded in emotion,</p>
<p align="center">But left to discover through other less informed sources,</p>
<p align="center">Often in a hostile environment of Ignorance and Mistrust.</p>
<p align="center">
<p align="center">Innocent as the creation of this tale was,</p>
<p align="center">Its intention was to soothe The Unquiet Child.</p>
<p align="center">But The Unquiet Child often lay inside the parent,</p>
<p align="center">While The Inquisitive Child stands before them.</p>
<p align="center">The story of the bird spread through the land,</p>
<p align="center">Bringing a sense of relief to those who searched for easy answers.</p>
<p align="center">But isn’t it The Child,</p>
<p align="center">Who searches for truth and trust?</p>
<p align="center">Who was requesting the easy answer?</p>
<p align="center">Many a child has erected a formidable tower of blocks,</p>
<p align="center">Only to learn the harsh lessons of gravity.</p>
<p align="center">
<p align="center">She continued to question her own understanding of her creation.</p>
<p align="center">She recognized the union of the two in creating the one,</p>
<p align="center">But also recognized her deeper sense of unrest inside,</p>
<p align="center">That questioned and searched for more beyond the veil of the body.</p>
<p align="center">As she looked into The Child’s eyes,</p>
<p align="center">She saw the glimmer of wonder in his eyes</p>
<p align="center">That had been extinguished in hers long ago</p>
<p align="center">By many easy answers</p>
<p align="center">That doused the flame of wonder and fascination.</p>
<p align="center">
<p align="center">She then recognized the awesome power she held before her.</p>
<p align="center">For she could continue to fan the flame glimmering in his eye,</p>
<p align="center">Or extinguish it with careless breaths.</p>
<p align="center">But to continue to let the inner flame burn</p>
<p align="center">May make him an outcast in a world without fire.</p>
<p align="center">
<p align="center">If we were all brought to this world carrying the flame,</p>
<p align="center">It may not have been meant to be extinguished.</p>
<p align="center">She recognizes it is not her decision to make for this child,</p>
<p align="center">For he is his alive and has his own voice.</p>
<p align="center">
<p align="center">As her thoughts settled down in the blink of an eye,</p>
<p align="center">The answer seemed to come from a sparking ember within.</p>
<p align="center">With her rekindled sense of awareness she replied,</p>
<p align="center">“You came to us from a bond of love.</p>
<p align="center">Beyond that I do not know,</p>
<p align="center">But I will look forward to the day when you can tell me the answer,</p>
<p align="center">Because I know it lies within.”</p>
<p style="text-align: right;">September, 1995</p>
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